With smart phones and social media an ever-present part of our culture, it's easy to get distracted from what's actually in front of us. God calls us to live in community and to experience genuine relationship with others. It takes effort to fully be present and develop those authentic relationships, but by putting down your technology and focusing on the people around you, you're taking a step in the right direction.
Why do we strive to be so aligned with the status quo or even an elite status when we were made to be fiercely unique? The status quo was made by man. Your unique gifts were given by God. If we’re finding our identity in the status we have or the box we’re in, we’re limiting ourselves to what the world says about us. We’re taking away our own freedom. Freedom to unapologetically be who God created us to be.
But comparison steals joy. Do not judge yourself based on a fitness model’s body. Do not be ashamed of staying at a Holiday Inn because a travel blogger is at the Ritz. God created you, perfectly and uniquely as you are. Comparing ourselves to people we see on social media steals our joy. We need to constantly and intentionally choose to rid ourselves of the comparison goggles and choose to be content and find joy and beauty in our own lives.
There’s only one number one spot in your life. Once I stepped back and took some space, I realized, I was not giving that number one spot to God. Ask yourself: who’s in the number one spot in your life?